The Magical Dating Realm

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Hello out there,
This is inspired by a friend's conversation on FB.
When it comes to dating, it's never easy finding "the right one".
The first thing we should always look at here is, some questions to think about before we pursue/ look for "the right one".
Do we think of it as an overall thing?
Is it just "the right one", or "Mr./ Ms. right", or the one that suits us best?
What do we consider as factors of being "the right one"?
Do we think of what we would like to find in the other potential companion/ mate?
Do we know what we are "looking for", or why?
Are we looking because we are lonely, for financial reasons, or because we truly want to have that companion to be with for the rest of our lives/ marry?
I am sure there are more questions here, but they would probably be specific to each individual.

Now to continue with some theory...
I shared this part in a comment, and it inspired me to share it here.

Just throwing these thoughts out there...

Hell level 1: Comes before we die, and is usually unknowingly/ unwillingly done by us.

Hell level 2: Online dating for the single/ lonely.

Hell level 3: To some this is kids/ an addiction problem (once acknowledged as a problem or not).

Hell level 4: To some... FB/ any other "social media". The drama never seems to end/ they seem to attract it.

Hell level 5: Probably after we do actually die. This would probably include all the things we disliked/ hated/ "personal tortures" while we were living.

The rest would be down there.

So, why live in Hell? STOP the online dating!

Instead:

> try going to events instead and meeting people while there...

> Like Dale suggested, try going to a bookstore/ library...

> Try other public places like pools, billiards, cafe's, etc...

> Maybe a friend/ (dare I say) a family member may know someone that would totally suit you. They may not know off the top of their head, but you never know who they know. Try attending friend's parties...

We tend to find people better when we meet in person... 

Just remember to keep an open mind & heart, not blind ones.

Seriously, I was introduced to my boyfriend currently (that yes, I do plan on moving in and marrying) through a mutual friend while at CLUB ABSTRACT one night, then we ran into each other in line for their closing night. From there we started chatting here on FB via messages, and after I got to know him better I invited him over for a movie. 

I hope this helps... (^&^)

Until next time...
Take care & Safe travels!

Chris S./ C.E.S.

Positive Purpose Within A Chain Letter?

The Meaning of Color & your B-Day
I recently got this in an email...  I don't care for those that say things like "for this to work, you must... invite all your friends/ share this to... " I personally, prefer the more positive sides/ aspects of sharing and would rather leave such decisions of what/ if to share, to you.
Therefore, I decided to change something about the answer to question #9.
Hope you like it.
(*@^@*)

Quoiting from the email:
"The meaning of color and your Birthday.
Plz; Don't cheat,
if you are honest, this tells the truth.
It's pretty good.
Write your answers on a piece of paper, and NO cheating!! The answers are at the bottom.

1. Which is your favorite color out of: red , black , blue , green , or yellow?

2.. Your first initial(First letter of your name)?

3... Your month of birth?

4.... Which color do you like more, black or white?

5..... Name of a person of the same gender as yours..

6...... Your favorite number?

7....... Do you like Flying or Driving more?

8........ Do you like a lake or the ocean more?

9......... Write down a wish (a real one).

When you're done, scroll down.. (Don't cheat!)


Answers
1. If you choose: RED- You are alert and your life is full of love.
Black - You are conservative and aggressive.
Green - Your soul is relaxed and you are laid back..
Blue - You are spontaneous and love kisses and affection from the ones you love.
Yellow - You are a very happy person and give good advice to those who are down.
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2. If your initial is: A-K You have a lot of love and friendships in your life.
L-R You try to enjoy your life to the maximum & your love life is soon to blossom.
S-Z You like to help others and your future love life looks very good..
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3. If you were born in: Jan-Mar: The year will go very well for you and you will discover that you fall in love with someone totally unexpected.
April-June: You will have a strong love relationship that will not last long but the memories will last forever.
July-Sept: You will have a great year and will experience a major life-changing experience for the good.
Oct-Dec: Your love life will not be great, but eventually you will find your soul mate.
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4. If you chose: Black: Your life will take on a different direction, it will seem hard at the time but will be the best thing for you, and you will be glad for the change.
White: You will have a friend who completely confides in you and would do anything for you, but you may not realize it.
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5. This person is your best friend.
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6. This is how many close friends you have in your lifetime.
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7. If you chose: Flying: You like adventure.
Driving: You are a laid back person.
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8. If you chose: Lake : You are loyal to your friends and your lover and are very reserved.
Ocean: You are spontaneous and like to please people.
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9. This wish"
This is where I cut in... (^^^)Pur

9. This wish can come true if:
a) You believe it can actually happen - ENVISION it!!! Feel free to ask yourself Q's like: What would it "be" like? ALL 5 senses to be included here. Feel free to write a list.
 
b) Look deeper into all the steps listed in a), and find out the "tree" of steps/ options to gaining more "ground/ access" to this "Big picture" of this dream (listed as your answer to the Q #9a) above). Feel free to write a list.

c) Time to "break down" steps listed in b), into steps that can be taken EACH DAY! A great example is our "carbon footprints" on our planet that we make each day. What "eco-friendly" steps do we take? ACTION is needed NOW!

BONUS
d) Make a list for each of the above with YOU in mind. Not what "should be", unless you are willing to be one to do so yourself. But what is relevant to you/ your own life. Including everyone in it that can/ does influence you, as this may take affect throughout your decisions.
Take a look at what you could achieve!!! It's up to you from here where it takes you... Life can be tricky, where are we going??? I am currently still "working on this" myself.

Sincerely,
Chris S. (*@^@*)