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Hello out there,
This is inspired by a friend's conversation on FB.
When it comes to dating, it's never easy finding "the right one".
The first thing we should always look at here is, some questions to think about before we pursue/ look for "the right one".
Do we think of it as an overall thing?
Is it just "the right one", or "Mr./ Ms. right", or the one that suits us best?
What do we consider as factors of being "the right one"?
Do we think of what we would like to find in the other potential companion/ mate?
Do we know what we are "looking for", or why?
Are we looking because we are lonely, for financial reasons, or because we truly want to have that companion to be with for the rest of our lives/ marry?
I am sure there are more questions here, but they would probably be specific to each individual.
Now to continue with some theory...
I shared this part in a comment, and it inspired me to share it here.
Hello out there,
This is inspired by a friend's conversation on FB.
When it comes to dating, it's never easy finding "the right one".
The first thing we should always look at here is, some questions to think about before we pursue/ look for "the right one".
Do we think of it as an overall thing?
Is it just "the right one", or "Mr./ Ms. right", or the one that suits us best?
What do we consider as factors of being "the right one"?
Do we think of what we would like to find in the other potential companion/ mate?
Do we know what we are "looking for", or why?
Are we looking because we are lonely, for financial reasons, or because we truly want to have that companion to be with for the rest of our lives/ marry?
I am sure there are more questions here, but they would probably be specific to each individual.
Now to continue with some theory...
I shared this part in a comment, and it inspired me to share it here.
Just throwing these thoughts out there...
Hell level 1: Comes before we die, and is usually unknowingly/ unwillingly done by us.
Hell level 2: Online dating for the single/ lonely.
Hell level 3: To some this is kids/ an addiction problem (once acknowledged as a problem or not).
Hell level 4: To some... FB/ any other "social media". The drama never seems to end/ they seem to attract it.
Hell level 5: Probably after we do actually die. This would probably include all the things we disliked/ hated/ "personal tortures" while we were living.
The rest would be down there.
So, why live in Hell? STOP the online dating!
Instead:
> try going to events instead and meeting people while there...
> Like Dale suggested, try going to a bookstore/ library...
> Try other public places like pools, billiards, cafe's, etc...
> Maybe a friend/ (dare I say) a family member may know someone that would totally suit you. They may not know off the top of their head, but you never know who they know. Try attending friend's parties...
We tend to find people better when we meet in person...
Just remember to keep an open mind & heart, not blind ones.
Seriously, I was introduced to my boyfriend currently (that yes, I do plan on moving in and marrying) through a mutual friend while at CLUB ABSTRACT one night, then we ran into each other in line for their closing night. From there we started chatting here on FB via messages, and after I got to know him better I invited him over for a movie.
I hope this helps... (^&^)
Until next time...
Take care & Safe travels!
Take care & Safe travels!
Chris S./ C.E.S.
